I thought I loved him but I never knew how much until we began the process of divorce. When someone does everything they can to break you, to scar you, when they seem to take pride in knowing they've destroyed you... You really see the depths of evil a person contains. And yet you still care about them? You still pray for them to find happiness? That's how I know what real love is. And I finally accept that I'm not the problem. The problem is that some people aren't capable...
Waking up every realizing I dodged a bullet, a BIG bullet. Even to this day it hurts. A lot. Some days I miss her & I have to remind myself why I left. Not all abuse is physically. & with her it was emotionally. BE STRONG ENOUGH TO KNOW WHAT YOU DESERVE & TO WALK AWAY WHEN SOMETHING IS HURTING YOU!
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"The convenient memory loss of a narcissist . "I don't remember that." "You must not be remembering that right." "That never happened." It is easier for them to be dismissive of what you both KNOW to be correct, than own up to their actions and admit responsibility for any wrongdoing." ~ A.L.N. TRUTH TRUTH TRUTH!
Narcissistic psychopath/sociopath relationship abuse. It makes it almost impossible to leave once you reach this point. The victim's behavior is an example of what psychologists call "learned helplessness".