Why is it so wrong for an introvert to point out loud someone is? Come on, everyone has experienced a Noisy Extrovert Motor-Mouth. - Hey there excuse me but could you: (1. Lower your talking volume, I can hear you from the other side of the room! (2. Stop talking for long enough, allow me to speak up & share in the conversation!… When I do speak up, you've gotta hush up. Please. And thank you.
INTJ soft spots: Loyalty. But if we have come to trust you--which is no easy/small thing to achieve--and you break that trust, don't be surprised if we never trust you again, no matter how contrite you are or what reparations have been afforded; the wound may never fully heal for us because it serves as a lesson that is referenced. It may not mean you're "cut off" but it means true, intimate access to "us" is. It can be a problem for us.