Maybe consider a platinum ring? I will be wearing it a lot and as we can see, I tend to break my promise ring and scratch it up until it's black..... 4 Facts You Didn't Know About Platinum | Robbins Brothers - Fully Engaged
Guide to Precious Metals | What is White Gold, Yellow Gold, Rose Gold, Platinum, Palladium, Silver, Rhodium | by Corey Egan
What Is White Gold?: This is a white gold ring. White gold consists of gold with one or more silver metals, usually silver, but sometimes palladium, platinum or nickel. White gold is plated with rhodium to give it its shiny appearanc.