Although my main focus is my health.... I've been working on changing/improving all aspects of my life. Since March, I've distanced myself from several friends/family members. It's amazing what happens to your soul when you cut off everything that causes pain sadness and anger. Investing too much time and effort on the wrong people hurts you more than you can imagine. Evaluate those around you and know it's YOUR choice to have people in our lives!
I refuse to get to the end of my life and realize how much I've missed because of working too much. As long as our bills are paid and we are happy and loving our life, that's good enough for me. And yes, we are planning for our future as well.