Dalai Lama: 18 Rules of Life - Take into account that great love and great achievements involve great risk. When you lose, donâ€™t lose the lesson. Remember that not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck.
But in proper Christianity thats what sin is. A correctable mistake. You say your sorry learn and grow and move on with your life and with faith. Condemnation only happens if you don't admit your wrong, don't apologize, or don't change your ways.