Failure or success?? Failure or success?? Those who rejected Albert Einstein, The Beatles, Oprah, Walt Disney, Michael Jordan and Beethoven were the real failures here....they couldn't recognize a master if they stumbled over one.
As I have always marched to the beat of my own drum, my self-esteem has never lacked. Judging others shows LACK of self-esteem, while the ability to be kind and praise shows HIGH self-esteem. Be patient, kind and loving to yourself first. These combined are the foundation for a healthy esteem.