Thats sad to theres others out there that are so self serving that all there decisions in life are based on them even if you have kids with them it can be worse. When they dont care to call you to hear from you when they make ur feelings a burden. When they blame you for getting upset about lies and doing things to hurt you and emotionally abuse you and control you cause they know how much you love them those kind of people are very very sick and nasty people who dont respect you and will leave