The right dude will fall over himself trying to be with that girl. Authenticity FTW.), as in he saw something that made him think this wouldn’t work. This doesn’t always come down to something you said or did. It could be more about the situation or timing. Guys are finicky and painfully simple–if there’s not a direct line from point A (meeting you) to point B (long-term commitment with you that fits with their lifestyle), they’re probably not gonna ante up the effort.