"I do not lightly meddle in other people's affairs. That's been Demelza's way. I think she would also say that life holds very few things which are genuinely worth having. And if you possess them, then.... nothing else matters. And if you don't possess them, then... everything else is worhless" - Ross, Caroline and Dwight #Poldark ((Yess!! At last, he finally came to his senses!!))
Amen!! There have been a few moments in my life where I didn't do this. To this day I look back at those times and say to myself you should have trusted your gut. Would have been alot less pain in my life if I had!!
We all have a past; things we wish we could change and things we wish would've never happened at all, but it's not our past that defines us. It contributes to who we are and what we become, through lessons learned and martuity we've grown...but, it doesn't define us. Our faith and willingness to continue on living, learning and doing the best we can; that is where we find who we really are.
This is my journey to a tee ... It's been a long road that I never aspired to be on...I never said when I grow up "I want to do it the hard way" but I have had great mentors who guided me and I love where I am now.