This reminds me of Darwin's quote: "It is not the strongest of the species that survives, nor the most intelligent, but the one most responsive to change." It doesn't matter the amount of stress you possess, it matters how you handle the stress you carry.
"Holding onto anger is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die." That's why we could care less about you. I'm happy to see we still get under your skin though. We haven't thought about you in almost a decade but we're flattered you