Anger destroys peace of mind, and relationships and causes wounds which may never heal....it is sure poison for the body and soul and for people around us who we love...anger must be controlled immediately by deep breathing and clenching the tongue tight.
Dustin Hoffman talking about his role in Tootsie and how it made him think about the way he treated women. I think it should be applied to how everyone treats everyone based on appearances, not necessarily only men towards women.
I've tried to figure it out for well over a year now and no, it's not an innocent mistake or a misunderstanding. There is not "another side" or more to the story. You simply suck at being human, genuine, and at actually caring even half as much as you pretend to care -- the entire top echelon of your cult ...& some of the mindless followers as well.