cheating does more damage to the betrayed spouse.it ruins their outlook on love and future relationships suffer. How can you do that to someone you once loved and shared a life with? Wouldn't it be kinder to just be honest? Yet she still hurts you !
she moved on, and I feel sorry for you, because she thought you were the most amazing boy ever. if she could have had any guy in the world, she still would have picked you. now, you're just another part of her past, a memory more faded every day. and someday, she'll find the one she deserves, and he will make her the happiest girl in the world.