Codependency. As an INFJ, I have dealt with needy people being attracted to me and me being attracted to their sadness my whole life. I have finally broken free of it. I still have some needy friends but I keep them at more of a distance now.
4 Questions to Identify and End Self-Destructive Behaviors
4 Questions to Help End Self-Destructive Behaviors || Print this worksheet from Glennon Doyle Melton and Brené Brown, designed to help you pinpoint the self-destructive behaviors that show up when you're trying to avoid your real problems.