Sometimes its the simple things that give hope. I must remember this when one gets me feeling bad or riled up over something I am passionate about. I must find compassion and understanding in the other party no matter how upside down they make me feel. That is all I wish back from them after all; even in disagreement. I must pull myself together. Take a breath...it will all work out.
I have my head held high & I hope you do too. When I say I hold no grudges, I mean it. The memories you have are yours to keep, no one can take those. Have respect for your husband & dont dwell on the past. We were both hurt by this, so no one is better than the other.