Setting healthy boundaries is necessary to protect us from being hurt or abused. Anyone that runs ramshackle all over you and doesn't care about hurting you is crossing boundaries. In life there are those that live to cause others grief and pain. Do not allow this toxicity. You must set boundaries and consequences for those who choose to mistreat you.
Setting Boundaries Doesn't Make Me "Mean"...I Can Set Limits And Expectations For My Life And Still Be "Nice." Considering Your Wishes Doesn't Mean I Have To Do What You Think I Should Do. My Feelings And Thoughts Are Part Of The Decision. And If You Don't Like It, That Belongs To You.
Boundaries don't have to be melodramatic or forceful in application. Boundaries can be quiet and steadfast. Example? We are setting a good and healthy boundary when we simply refuse to engage in a useless argument #HealthyRelationships #Boundaries