Your divorce process should help you build the future you're hoping for. Looking to what we want to see happen rather than focusing on what we're afraid of creates a positive and productive dynamic that elevates your discussions and provides room to HOPE that your future will be good.
"You can't just give up on someone because the situations not ideal. Great relationships aren't great because they have no problems. They're great because both people care enough about the other person to find a way to make it work."