Your job is just a job. Drama between friends and family will eventually subside. Problems related to your self worth such as appearance, weight, money, and status are all things that you can change if you're unhappy with your current situation. But stress and worry only inhibit progress. Be mindful of situations that do not deserve your attention or energy. Choose to be in control of your inner peace, because no one can take that away from you.
A relationship can only work between two people who are totally present and dedicated to one another, despite any outward distractions or internal problems. You're either in it together, or you're not in it at all.