Each day is a monumental struggle for me not to act on what crashes and storms through my mind--especially when I perceive real or imagined rejection, criticism, or abandonment. My hope is that people can love me where I'm at on my journey and believe in my goodness. I believe in yours.
Borderline Personality Disorder These are all to true. Definitely the self assurance, if I won the lotto I would def get plastic surgery. Pay to have tutors to learn things so I wouldn't be so ignorant. This isn't a cry for help, it's allowing my emotion to not be bottled up.
Quote on borderline: It doesn’t matter how many times a person tells me they like me. I always think they can change their mind instantly. Always with the fear of rejection. I know it may not be a reality, but it feels very real. -Ana Landa www.HealthyPlace.com
Invalidating someone else is not merely disagreeing with something that the other person said. It is a process in which individuals communicate to another that the opinions and emotions of the target are invalid, irrational, selfish, uncaring, stupid, most likely insane, and wrong, wrong, wrong. Invalidators let it be known directly or indirectly that their target's views and feelings do not count for anything to anybody at any time or in any way.