"I find that people have really interesting things to say when you ask them what it means to be whatever their tribe is, and then when you ask them what it means to be an 'Indian,'" she said. "I'm fascinated by that."
You're the last grandchild to talk privately with your 120 year old grandmother on her deathbed. "Do you want the good news or the bad news?" she asks, knowing she will only have enough time to explain one secret or the other. > What if she told you only half of each though and you had to figure out the rest of each one for yourself.