So too the [Holy] Spirit comes to our aid and bears us up in our weakness; for we do not know what prayer to offer nor how to offer it worthily as we ought, but the Spirit Himself goes to meet our supplication and pleads in our behalf with unspeakable yearnings and groanings too deep for utterance. ~Rom 8:26 AMP
A Prayer For When We Just Can’t Understand - Isaiah 40:28 Have you not known? Have you not heard? The everlasting God, the Lord, The Creator of the ends of the earth, Neither faints nor is weary. His understanding is unsearchable.
I tell my son that when he is going through a major area of suffering in his life, it's because God has to put us through bootcamp before we can be soldiers and God must have REALLY big plans for his life as a soldier.