“If you believe you will have no control over a situation, you won’t.” – Lisa Layden You are not a victim in your life. You are a creator. Once you understand and live your life with this understanding, you will know that you are creating all of it and will know you do have control, but that control will come from an understanding beyond the perception of the ego. ‘Til next time remember Life is happening BY you, not TO you™
“To forgive another is to forgive yourself, because separation is an illusion.” – Lisa Layden It can be difficult for the ego to forgive another for something because the ego believes that person is separate from you. It believes that ‘other’ person hurt or offended you in some way. But the inner-self understands that what appears separate is not and when you forgive another for what they have done or said, you are actually forgiving yourself as there is no ‘other’.
“The need to control another person is an expression of the inability to control yourself.” – Lisa Layden When you try to control another person, you are actually displaying an outward expression of the inability to control yourself. In that moment, you are operating from exclusively from your ego. When you are in control and in alignment with yourself, you will not have a need to control another. ‘Til next time remember Life is happening BY you, not TO you™