rumors and gossip are the most unreliable source of information about people because of how judgmental and bias some people can be...learn from being around that person instead of blindly listening to the crowed.
Saying I forgive and then pulling the past back out of the bag is the reason people learn to to just quit trying to believe it. Actions speak louder than words. Double standards are cruel and meaningless when it's the same ole thing every time. So therefore I choose to break the ties, move on with my life and let you deal with your own messed up life! Even though you think you're justified, you continue to live in the past. You allow anger to consume you!