Collect moments not things. Please, in all upcoming gift-exchange moments in life, DO NOT get me things! Give me your words or nice photos. I like to keep those. I want a peaceful, cozy, uncluttered house, and very few "things."
But keep in mind: whatever you might want to change it must be in harmony with your mind, body and soul. Do not just decide to work more if you do not have time to go to the gym/massage/vacation or you do not have time to reflect/meditate/self develop.