I will not cause pain without allowing something new to be born say The Lord Isaiah 66.9 9 Shall I bring to the birth, and not cause to bring forth? saith the Lord: shall I cause to bring forth, and shut the womb? saith thy God.
I can honestly say this. Some of the biggest blessings I've got are from things I mentioned/mumbled in passing or as I was working. It's how I got a couch. Lol God is always interested even in mumbles you're not paying the closest attention too. Lol