The symptoms of abuse are there, and the woman usually sees them: the escalating frequency of put-downs. Early generosity turning more and more to selfishness. Verbal explosions when he is irritated or when he doesn’t get his way.
You have pinned for over a year about being glad you ended it and so he could fix his relationship. Like you should be given an award lmao don't you know that helping a married man cheat is the definition of toxic? You're a fucking joke.