Exactly. If I haven't asked to get together with you, that might be a clue. Your Internet stalking doesn't count since I never asked you to be here. That was your choice, I'm indifferent to it as I can't stop you. Don't get it twisted.
As I get older, I find out more about myself and allow certain people to know me as well. Those that won't know me for whatever reason tend to get in my way and make me upset. I'm coming to realize the importance of distancing yourself from those people.