Dear Woman, Sometimes you'll just be too much woman. Too smart. Too beautiful. Too strong. Too much of something. That makes a man feel like less of a man, which will start making you feel like you have to be less of a woman. The biggest mistake you can make is removing jewels from your crown to make it easier for a man to carry. When this happens, I need you to understand, you do not need a smaller crown -- you need a man with bigger hands.
Patriarchy isn't referring to men, it's referring to a collective mentality that men are supposed to act a certain way, enforce women to act a certain way, and holds the belief that men are above women, while degrading both women and men who don't meet the mentality's standards.