Have each bridesmaid, parents, friends, etc write a letter to the bride and have the final one be from the groom. As a MOH give this to bride day before, and put a piece of black paper on top of groom's letter and have her read it the day of wedding :)
So true. I'm never good enough for my parents, friends, or family. I'm a piece of failure!
When I was younger my friends would pin me down and hurt me and say that I should be glad that they weren't rapists because I'd be a goner, I would cry and say sorry for things that weren't my fault. To this day the thoughts of those moments bring me to my knees in shame and sobs.