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nmim 5: Whistle Blower Truthteller Scapegoat - Narcissist enemy explaine...

nmim Whistle Blower Truthteller Scapegoat - Narcissist enemy explained in 48 seconds Black Sheep

Come on. Dont you remember how they would say we weren't their daughters, and the constant comparisons between us?

It's very common for narcissistic mothers to have a golden child / SCAPEGOAT dynamic going on. In short, one child in the family is the golden child & one or more is the SCAPEGOAT.

In a family where one or both of the parents function in a toxic pattern, the different family members often adopt certain set roles. Although the patterns can shift around a bit, there is usually a default setting. In this podcast Stephen Bach and Monkey will talk about some of these roles, how to identify them and what impact they have on the dynamic in a toxic family.

Different Roles in a Toxic Family

In a family where one or both of the parents function in a toxic pattern, the different family members often adopt different roles in a toxic family.

A narcissist has a false self they loathe. You never deserved to be abused. You are not what the narcissist and their flying monkeys  tried to put into your life.

A narcissist has a false self they loathe. You never deserved to be abused. You are not what the narcissist and their flying monkeys tried to put into your life.

This is exactly the map of my family dynamic. Everything here happened or attempted to happen. Unfortunately not all of us are born into unconditional love

Narcissism As A Family Disease: The Scapegoat Dynamic ***The best diagram that depicts the dynamics of a narcissistic parent and the outcome of favoritism with one child over another(s)

Don’t expect abusive family members to apologize or make amends. They will likely blame you more if you attempt to hold them accountable. Glynis Sherwood, Breaking Free from Being the Family Scapegoat, Glynis Sherwood Counseling

Good insight for all scapegoating situations. from Glynis Sherwood, Breaking Free from Being the Family Scapegoat

Scapegoat Studio Good Friday Banner Behold

Scapegoat Studio Good Friday Banner Behold

Behold, the Lamb of God who takes away the sins of the world. (John These original banner designs are dye sublimated onto polyester fabric that hangs nicely and has a satin luster to it.

yet still blame others for their mistakes & choices,, get real with yourself!

A Narcissist Taking Responsibility? Never!

It's funny how someone can refuse to take responsibility for their actions but has no issue placing blame on others.

If you want to know the truth then pick up the phone and hear it. I have no problem being the scapegoat for the man I am eternally bound to, however an intelligent women would stop counting on the lies, they seem all too pleasing don't they...and start living in reality.

SO important to remember: Never waste time trying to explain who you are to people who are committed to misunderstanding you.

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