If you don't have peace, everything is going to feel out of place to you. You'll be agitated and frustrated. But if you find inner peace, you'll notice what irrational had hid. Maybe everything was in place and you didn't notice.
Normally I don't like Dr. Phil, but this was absolutely spot on !!!!!!!!!!!!!! You would think this could just go unsaid, but wish those who don't understand would try to learn it and remember their place. It's called respecting boundaries and its mutual !