"I always wonder why birds stay in the same place when they can fly anywhere on the earth. Then I ask myself the same question" isn't that the million dollar question....especially when I should have learned a cold hard truth about my situation by now.
"If you're physically fit, hungry to learn and be better, I urge you to travel - as far and widely as possible. Sleep on floors if you have to. Find out how other people leave and eat and cook. Learn from them - wherever you go." ...or any age, really.