"The sad thing is that, even though we know our lives aren't working in certain areas, we are still afraid to change. We are locked into our comfort zone, no matter how self-destructive it may be. Yet, the only way to get out of our comfort zone and to be free of our problems and limitations is to get uncomfortable. We can only experience freedom in direct proportion to the amount of truth that we are willing to accept without running away." -- Robert Anthony
When you are fighting and being pushed to the edge, remember one thing. Real relationships aren't perfect and perfect relationships aren't real. If you find that person who still loves you and is willing to make it work after they've seen you at your worst, you've found love. It's your choice whether or not to accept it and reciprocate.