INTJ soft spots: Loyalty. But if we have come to trust you--which is no easy/small thing to achieve--and you break that trust, don't be surprised if we never trust you again, no matter how contrite you are or what reparations have been afforded; the wound may never fully heal for us because it serves as a lesson that is referenced. It may not mean you're "cut off" but it means true, intimate access to "us" is. It can be a problem for us.
Have you tried making a "dump dinner" yet? Don't let the name fool you--these no-fuss recipes are as delicious (and easy) as they come, with next to no cleanup required. Just pour ingredients into a pot, stir, cook and serve. No chopping means less prep time and less mess! Note: If you can't find beef stew seasoning, you can use a package of brown gravy mix.