Do you know how sometimes you have a bad day, and it may cause you to be a bit short with your kid or partner? And then, later, you go to them and say: I am sorry I was short with you, I was just worried/tired/busy/other, … We all do that, right? Well, not the toxic person. They live in a blissful world where nothing is ever their responsibility. When bad things happen, it is because the world is against them! When they are raging abuse at you, it is because YOU made them angry.
We work our asses off. Bills are always paid on time, kids are fed, clothed, and happy. We do it all on our own. We don't rely on taxes or parents/in-laws and we don't have to steal to get what we want. EVERYTHING we have is well deserved, earned, and work for. That really pisses lazy ass, worthless people off. Not our problem. It's called jealousy.
If you aren’t willing to work for it, don’t complain about not having it. – Toby McKeekan