The most beautiful, joyful relationships are those without codependence, freely chosen with passion (which is different than drama or neediness) by two strong beings who inspire each other to higher energetic levels than either would have achieved alone.
life doesn't have to be hard. few know this. most people think they need to fight and struggle. not so. you can let life unfold. the secret is to focus on what you want, do what you can to make it happen, and trust the process. yes, life can be hard. but it can also be easy. the difference is how you look at what is happening to you. the choice is yours.