It is obvious that you do not know or care to hear both sides of the conversations. Your kids were not put down, attacked or treated like shit. They were.used as an example on how someone watched them.
It's just time to let go and move on. I don't need to hate you. Forgiveness is what I choose, not for you but for me. You repeated last year. For the first time, I can actually say that in this moment, I do not want you in my life. Not ever.