No person has the right to condemn you on how you repair your heart or how you choose to grieve, because no one knows how much you're hurting. Recovering takes time and everyone heals at their own pace.
Motherhood. I'm not better than you. I am not worse than you. I am different than you. This is MY journey. I love it when other mom's understand this and don't try to shove their opinions down your throat about birth or raising your children. Every mom does things differently and that is ok.