Totally INFP, never wanting to offend anybody because you don't want to regret it. total INFJ thing too because whatever we feel we feel it to the Nth degree, but don't always like to share what's on our minds
If you don't have peace, everything is going to feel out of place to you. You'll be agitated and frustrated. But if you find inner peace, you'll notice what irrational had hid. Maybe everything was in place and you didn't notice.