“The useless days days will add up to something. The shitty waitressing jobs. The hours writing in your journal. The long meandering walks. The hours reading poetry and story collections and novels…. These things are your becoming.
It's not so much a strong need as a desire to be liked. and I can't speak for other ENFPs, but as for myself, I spend my life trying to be liked, and it's not good. I need to learn to be my own person. From an enfp