Exactly. <<And maybe people say this because of personality. Yes, people say this. I said this once to my best friend because of a guy I knew that was a total asstown. So maybe they aren't saying this because of the fact that 'he's not the cutest.'
I want to personally thank my ex for treating me so badly and being unfaithful in our marriage because if it wasn't for him being such an terrible partner, I would of never found my fantastic boyfriend. I have found a man who loves me through my bad and good days. Who puts me before himself, who surprises me with expensive gifts just because he loves me, and who is a respectable United States Marine. I haven't been this happy in a relationship in my entire life.
If they only knew how immeasurably, unconditionally & entirely how much we love them (before they become parents &/or adults themselves)... maybe they wouldn't want to rush through the bliss of their youth to arrive so quickly to adulthood. *sigh*