I know it's new year and all and everyone is all about new beginnings and resolutions... I usually think of my birthday as my 'new' year. so, I usually wait and think about what I really want to accomplish and plan that around my day. when I turned 40 a few years ago, I made some big, huge changes to my life. I don't regret a single one of them. I embarked on an incredible journey of discovering who I wanted to be. the kind of wife the kind of mother the kind of person God was calling me to…