Some weird a5s content going round right now seemingly suggesting that your partner should apparently carry the weight, be your therapist, life coach, healer, parent - or combination of the 5. No one is there to do the work for you. Instead of holding every date up against a list of unrealistic flag shaped expectations you found on relationship-tok, figure out if they’re someone who’s willing to put work in on themselves - not you. Figure out if someone will be willing to put their pride…