I like how you hate me, and yet copy everything I do and love. Projection is a funny thing. People who constantly are accusing you of stealing, cheating, copying, or hurting them are accusing because they are the ones who are guilty of the behavior.
That is so true for my parents, my mother especially. Playing the victim card is essentially playing to someone’s guilt. Toxic people like narcissists and sociopath use emotional blackmail and manipulation to control their targets.