"Someday everything will make perfect sense. So for now, laugh at the confusion, smile through the tears, and keep reminding yourself that everything happens for a reason." Even if someday it doesn't make perfect sense, it happened for a reason.
Don't depend too much on anyone in this world. Even your shadow leaves you when you're in darkness.<<<-- maybe in darkness your shadow is simply wrapping around you in a hug. It's okay to trust people, just don't unhealthily do so.