I dont want you to have to save me. I want you to stand by my side as I save myself. I want this as a tattoo, except I'd change the words to, "I dont want you to save me, I want you to stay beside me as I save myself.
This is very true. I'm busy too, but I always make time for people I care about. It's also how know when to spend time on a person or not, if they care enough to make time for me. Otherwise I peace out because nobody wants to be treated as an option.