STRATEGIES for dealing with a Narcissist

Strategies and tips for dealing with narcissists. How to beat them at their own game by knowing them better than they know themselves. ✦ ✧ ✦ TIPS FOR DEALING WITH NARCISSISTS

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If you have a parent with Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) and you are wondering how you can possibly have a relationship with this person, here's the deal. 1️⃣ Firstly, you need to GIVE UP all hope that they'll change or learn to live from the heart in any shape or form. It ain't gonna happen. They are effectively caged on an unconscious level and have a dark energy working through them, which is for life. 2️⃣ Secondly, don't expect them to ever do anything for you out of love. They simply do not have the capacity. All connection with their authentic soul was severed a long time ago and with that went the ability to love. I know these are bitter pills to swallow. After all, your parents are supposed to be the one (or two) people who should love you unconditionally.

Staying with the narcissist or trying to help them change will simply be lining yourself up for more abuse and energetic depletion until there’s nothing left of you. Then, they’ll simply discard you and replace you with a fresh source of supply, without a backwards glance! Choose yourself. Get out & go 'No Contact.' Freedom And Peace, Choose Yourself, Cognitive Dissonance, Life Force Energy, Healing Modalities, Simply Be, Narcissism, The Only Way

Thinking You Can Change a Narcissist

Staying with the narcissist or trying to help them change will simply be lining yourself up for more abuse and energetic depletion until there’s nothing left of you. Then, they’ll simply discard you and replace you with a fresh source of supply, without a backwards glance! Choose yourself. Get out & go 'No Contact.'

The narcissist's game will finally be up when you refuse them all entry to you and your energy, plus focus on your healing. Little did you know that you were the one to wield the power all along. 🌈 Narcissistic Husband, Relationship Quizzes, Narcissistic Supply, Little Do You Know, Narcissistic Behavior, Done With You

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A Narcissist is Never Done with You

The narcissist's game will finally be up when you refuse them all entry to you and your energy, plus focus on your healing. Little did you know that you were the one to wield the power all along. 🌈

I understand the idea of wanting to get back at the narcissist by claiming the power and making THEM obsessed with you, rather than it being the other way around. But if you take that path, you play a dangerous game and walk right into their hands. The best revenge against a narcissist will always be to render them irrelevant and cut off all energetic supply heading in their direction. #unmaskingthenarc🎭 Best Revenge, Dangerous Games, The Best Revenge, Be Dangerous, I Understand

How to Make a Narcissist Obsessed (& Why You Shouldn't!)

I understand the idea of wanting to get back at the narcissist by claiming the power and making THEM obsessed with you, rather than it being the other way around. But if you take that path, you play a dangerous game and walk right into their hands. The best revenge against a narcissist will always be to render them irrelevant and cut off all energetic supply heading in their direction. #unmaskingthenarc🎭

Mirror Technique for Stopping the Projection of Others

If you ever find yourself standing there, with someone else projecting their own stuff onto you, use the mirror technique. All you need to do is hold up an invisible mirror to them in front of yourself. Now, they are no longer projecting onto you, but rather, at themselves via their reflection. This simple technique protects you from other people from using you for an energy dump. #unmaskingthenarc🎭

The closest thing you’ll get to respect from a narcissist is the absence of a lack of respect. In other words, if a narcissist ‘respects’ you, they’ll hold back on belittling, gaslighting, manipulation & punishments. In fact, they may even try to suck up to you if they see that you’ve got something they deem of value. So, if that’s the type of 'respect' you want from a narcissist, here's how you can go about achieving that... 👉 Remain Aloof 👉 Hold Yourself with Confidence 👉 Retain Your Sovereignty 👉 Don’t Always Be Available 👉 Be Someone of Value 👉 Have Respect for Yourself 👉 Set Boundaries 👉 Be Your Own Source (of all things). #unmaskingthenarc🎭 Causes Of Narcissism, Narcissistic Boss, Respect Relationship Quotes, What Is Narcissism, Narcissistic Men, Psychological Facts Interesting, Manipulative People

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How to Make a Narcissist 'Respect' You

The closest thing you’ll get to respect from a narcissist is the absence of a lack of respect. In other words, if a narcissist ‘respects’ you, they’ll hold back on belittling, gaslighting, manipulation & punishments. In fact, they may even try to suck up to you if they see that you’ve got something they deem of value. So, if that’s the type of 'respect' you want from a narcissist, here's how you can go about achieving that... 👉 Remain Aloof 👉 Hold Yourself with Confidence 👉 Retain Your Sovereignty 👉 Don’t Always Be Available 👉 Be Someone of Value 👉 Have Respect for Yourself 👉 Set Boundaries 👉 Be Your Own Source (of all things). #unmaskingthenarc🎭

Disarming a narcissist all comes down to understanding their game. They operate by gaining your trust and then collecting your data (personal information, triggers and emotional wounds). From there, they can use your weaknesses and twist your information against you. But... this tactic is ONLY effective when you're unaware of their game and play into their hands by trying to defend yourself and feeling mortally wounded by their words. #unmaskingthenarc 🎭 ⚔️ We disarm narcissists by healing our triggers and taking away ALL of their potential ammunition. Intuitive Empath, Self Care Bullet Journal, Healing Words, Spiritual Healer

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Disarming a Narcissist

Disarming a narcissist all comes down to understanding their game. They operate by gaining your trust and then collecting your data (personal information, triggers and emotional wounds). From there, they can use your weaknesses and twist your information against you. But... this tactic is ONLY effective when you're unaware of their game and play into their hands by trying to defend yourself and feeling mortally wounded by their words. #unmaskingthenarc 🎭 ⚔️ We disarm narcissists by healing our triggers and taking away ALL of their potential ammunition.

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Narcissistic Apology

The biggest lesson we learn when dealing with narcissists is that anyone can say anything. Words literally mean zilch without the right actions accompanying them. #unmaskingthenarc 🎭

The narcissist will want to punish you and make you feel inferior for daring to block them. Because by you doing so, you've just delivered evidence that they are NOT as special or perfect as they believe themselves to be. So, rather than self-reflect, they will project their disowned feelings of shame and rejection back onto you and work to annihilate you (as a way of destroying the evidence itself). Sound twisted? It is. 🎭 FULL VID - YouTube

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What Happens When You Block a Narcissist?

The narcissist will want to punish you and make you feel inferior for daring to block them. Because by you doing so, you've just delivered evidence that they are NOT as special or perfect as they believe themselves to be. So, rather than self-reflect, they will project their disowned feelings of shame and rejection back onto you and work to annihilate you (as a way of destroying the evidence itself). Sound twisted? It is. 🎭 FULL VID - YouTube

The best thing you can do when dealing with a narcissistic adult child is to understand that they will not change and create healthy boundaries for yourself. The narcissist will continue to outright push through your boundaries if you let them. In their world of entitlement and superiority, they will now see you as the abusive one, because how dare you take away their supply. This is why you must continue to hold and enforce your boundaries, over and over again. You’re effectively retraining them with how you expect to be treated and what you will no longer tolerate. Here's how to deal with an adult narcissistic child. 🎭 >PIN IT For Later< Boundaries For Yourself, Parent Quiz, Healthy Boundaries, Personality Disorder, To Move Forward, Move Forward, Kids And Parenting

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6 Tips for Dealing with Narcissistic Adult Children

The best thing you can do when dealing with a narcissistic adult child is to understand that they will not change and create healthy boundaries for yourself. The narcissist will continue to outright push through your boundaries if you let them. In their world of entitlement and superiority, they will now see you as the abusive one, because how dare you take away their supply. This is why you must continue to hold and enforce your boundaries, over and over again. You’re effectively retraining them with how you expect to be treated and what you will no longer tolerate. Here's how to deal with an adult narcissistic child. 🎭 >PIN IT For Later<

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Narcissists Fight Dirty - How to Beat Them

For a narcissist to truly 'win,' they have to be able to pull you down into their dirty arena. To do that they'll bait you, coerce you, manipulate you, sweet talk you and throw fear and guilt at you. The thing is, if you DON'T enter their arena, they have zero power. Since the narcissist is an empty no-self, they CANNOT function or exist in any place that exudes authenticity. They're like a transparent shadow, trying to exist in a solid 3D world. Unless the real 3D people feed the imaginary shadow with energy, it cannot remain in existence. It will simply dissolve into the nothingness that it is. And that my friend is how you 'beat' the narcissist. By pulling your energy away from them and allowing them to drift off into the nothingness. 🎭 >PIN IT For Later<

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6 Tips for Dealing with a Narcissistic Partner

Who the narcissist truly is, is a complete inversion of what they’ve led you to believe. The narcissist is not a generally nice person, who has bad moments. At their core, they are an empty vessel, filled with shame and self-loathing. They are cold and manipulative but can pretend to be ‘nice’ simply as a manipulation tactic. The narcissist trauma bonded you, which created loyalty and a false feeling of ‘love’ within you. You’ve spent the whole relationship being treated with their ‘rewarding’ and ‘punishing’ behaviour. The purpose of the trauma bond is to keep you chemically addicted to them, making it extremely difficult to ever see the truth of who they are behind their mask, let alone have the energy to leave. Here are 6 honest tips for dealing with a narcissistic partner. 🎭

It can cut deep when you're ignored. Especially when you can feel that they're doing it intentionally to cause you pain. That's exactly what the narcissist is banking on. But, when you can detach, you can see it all so much more clearly. You see, the narcissist's BIGGEST fear is being rendered irrelevant. So, to cut you deep, they dish out what would hurt THEM the most if the situation was reversed. Do you see how you actually hold ALL OF THE POWER here? To beat them at their own game, the solution is simple... Walk away from the narcissist and don't just give them a short-term silent treatment in return. Eliminate them from your life for good, making their deepest fear come true - making them permanently irrelevant. Biggest Fear, Biggest Fears, Banking, Life Hacks, Thinking Of You, It Hurts

Why Do Narcissists Ignore You?

It can cut deep when you're ignored. Especially when you can feel that they're doing it intentionally to cause you pain. That's exactly what the narcissist is banking on. But, when you can detach, you can see it all so much more clearly. You see, the narcissist's BIGGEST fear is being rendered irrelevant. So, to cut you deep, they dish out what would hurt THEM the most if the situation was reversed. Do you see how you actually hold ALL OF THE POWER here? To beat them at their own game, the solution is simple... Walk away from the narcissist and don't just give them a short-term silent treatment in return. Eliminate them from your life for good, making their deepest fear come true - making them permanently irrelevant.

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6 Tips for Dealing with a Narcissistic Boss

Narcissists commonly land leadership roles for a few reasons. Firstly, they feel entitled to be in a position of power due to their inflated sense of superiority and will shoulder their way up the ladder until they get it. Secondly, their arrogance can often manifest as overconfidence in being able to perform the role (even if they suck at it!). Here are 6 tips for dealing with a narcissistic boss. 🎭 >PIN IT For Later<

Narcissists absolutely LOATHE being told "No," or having anyone set a boundary with (or against) them. Why 🤔? Because their extreme sense of entitlement, coupled with a God-complex has them believing that they can say and do whatever the hell they want without consequence. Their ego immediately pushes back with, "How DARE you say no to me!!! Do you not know who I am?!" If you truly want to know if someone is a narcissist or not, just use 'No' as a complete sentence and watch how they react. 🎭 >PIN IT For Later< Stop Enabling, Create Boundaries, Complete Sentence, Sense Of Entitlement, Complete Sentences

How to Tell if Someone is a Narcissist

Narcissists absolutely LOATHE being told "No," or having anyone set a boundary with (or against) them. Why 🤔? Because their extreme sense of entitlement, coupled with a God-complex has them believing that they can say and do whatever the hell they want without consequence. Their ego immediately pushes back with, "How DARE you say no to me!!! Do you not know who I am?!" If you truly want to know if someone is a narcissist or not, just use 'No' as a complete sentence and watch how they react. 🎭 >PIN IT For Later<