So true. Don't waste energy on people who think you are the bad guy when in reality you are the only one who has enough respect to be real with them. They choose not to see that others are saying worse things about them but are fake to their face. I prefer to be honest and a grown up.
I don't care what anyone says, you can't help but let someone else become your happiness. And as long as you're happy, then it doesn't matter what other people think about it. I think that's part of life. From lovers to children. And I don't think it's bad, at all.